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Events have always been a part of our lives. The crucial part of every event is planning it. You spend a lot of time on planning and implementing it, and forget to be in the moment. That is why we came up with Grand Oaks events. Let us your what is your event and get back to slumber. We will work on arranging it. All you have to do is to simply sit and watch it unveil.
Planning for a funeral may be hard that is why we are here. Right from looking after the gathering to addressing your requirements we take care of everything, be it professional or ritualistic.
Memorial services are also a part of our services. There are different ways in which the same event can be organised, let us know what your type is as we will get that done for you.
Get relieved from the pain of planning cremations for your loved ones. We are here to do that for you just the way you need it.
A funeral is a time of sorrow and grief for the departed. The loved ones of the deceased need the love and support they can get. So it is extremely important that one knows the necessary manners that should be followed during a funeral procession:
Usually, you will receive the rules of precession in the start, so if you get there early you will receive those instructions and follow them thereafter. It also shows that you were really close to the departed as you will be with his or her family in the front.
Turn your lights on:
Turing on the lights on your car indicates that you are part of the funeral procession.
Do not speed:
Usually, all the funeral processions are slow moving, so always maintain the speed of the group. Do not put too much a distance between your car and the one in front of you.
Always stay in line:
Never try to take a shortcut in order to get to the graveyard quickly. Avoid overtaking cars in the procession. This breaks the formation and gives you a bad impression.
Respect the family of the departed:
The family of the departed usually arrive in a special car. Do not try to include yourself there unless asked by them personally.
It is a very good manner to speak softly and politely with everyone you meet at the funeral. This is not a good time to socialize with an old friend you just saw or shout out to anyone present at the funeral.
It is extremely important that you wear appropriate and decent clothes to a funeral. It is highly advised that you do not wear anything that is vulgar or attention seeker.
Avoid taking pictures:
You should not disrupt the funeral by clicking pictures with the body or with the departed family members and close relatives.
A sympathy card:
The family members of the deceased will highly appreciate your arrival if you bring a sympathy card. A handwritten sympathy card brings out more emotions than a readymade one.
Offer your assistance wherever possible:
You may want to help the family of the departed in some or the other way. Do not feel demotivated when they don’t appreciate your help. Give them their time as they still won’t be over the death of their loved one. Give them a day or two to get back to you.
In some cultures and religion, there is a practice of bringing home cooked food to the family members of the deceased. This keeps them from worrying about preparing their own food in this time of sorrow. It is advisable to bring the food in a disposable container as you don’t have to worry about asking your plates or spoons back.
Cremation serves as a funeral and is a process of reducing a corpse to its natural elements by way of vaporization and combustion. The only things that remains are cremains which consists of skeletal remains and bone fragments. All of this is obtained in form of fine powder.
Cremations can be executed with or without funeral ceremonies. Most people avoid going to funerals as is a place of grief and sorrow. But it helps the relatives of the deceased to express their gloomy feelings and affections. Different religions and traditions follow different methods to say goodbye to their departed loved ones.
Following are the types of cremations that are followed by various religions:
As the name suggests, it is simple cremation of the deceased, without a funeral the body is cremated and the cremains are handed over to the deceased’s family members. The direction in which the wind is blowing is also to be taken care of before using this method.
Traditional funeral services:
This embodies all the usual means of cremating the departed. This type of cremation are usually of someone important and done on a large scale. It is conducted by a clergy in a funeral home. It includes prayers, reading and sharing of instances with the departed. After the whole ceremony, the body is cremated and the cremains are given to the deceased loved ones.
It can be described as a funeral without the body actually present there. The cremation takes place within two or three days of the death and the ceremony takes place sometime after the cremation, which can be a week or even a month.
Methods of scattering the ashes:
It is simply tossing the remains in the wind, usually downwards. It can be a group activity where everyone takes chance to scatter the ashes.
This involves digging a hole in the earth and pouring the ashes into it and covering it again with soil.
In this method, ashes are scattered on loose soil and then a ground is raked. This is only done in a scattering garden under the supervision of the funeral director.
A ring is made on the ground around a tree and the remains are poured on the ring. A heart or a star can also be used other than a ring.
This is the most common methods of scattering ashes. In this method, the ashes are tossed into a pond or a lake. The ashes float for sometimes and then dissolves in the water.
This is done from a plane or a helicopter at a specific scattering location. It requires a professional to carry it out. This method is the costliest of all.